Within the last few weeks there have been many weddings and I am getting so sick of it that I could puke up a lung and not even feel bad about it.
First my friend Rich decides to get married to Bre…. I don’t know what the hell is going on around these here parts but it seems like everyone I know is getting married or has been married once before. The wedding for Rich and Bre was really nice and I did get to find Mike at the wedding and I got to see Eggy, whom I haven’t seen in forever. It was great Rich got married in chucks and some 30′s looking suit. It was really nice and all the free beer and food was bad ass… I like food…
So this last weekend my sister got married even though she is 7 mos prego with my little neice, the wedding at the church was great even though I thought that I might spontainusly combust. The priest was a short stocky man that had probably the best sense of humor that I have ever seen in a holy man. The surman was the best part and it actually kept me interested which is probably the hardest part of everything. The wedding was held in a small church with a busted steeple apparently the church was built a VERY LONG TIME AGO, I don’t know specifics.
After the wedding I followed one of my step mothers sisters to the reception hall where there was singing and dancing and hugging and shaking hands and all that good shit. There was an open bar that I think was the worst idea in the history of the world, everyone was pretty hammed by the time that they served food and I was no exception. I had probably about 7 drinks before the food had been server and I got to see my uncles Mike, Ralph, and all my aunts that I can’t remember the names of, It’s been like 8 to 10 years since I seen any of these people, so I guess that explains it all.
Everything was going really well talking about what people have been doing and how things are going, everyone was asking about how my mom was and I was more than willing to talk to them about her. I miss my mom, she’s on vaction in Europe right now…. so anyway my stepmom asked me to dance with her and I was all like NO FUCKIN WAY, BUT Tammie was all like just do it so I did… WRONG IDEA, that fucking lady starts bringing up shit that doesn’t need to be talked about at my sister’s wedding about what had happened before I had moved back to Bing.
The quick version is —> I was really sick and had called them to see if they could get me to a doctor. In short they didn’t help. I was really sick too.
So she was all like “I did everything I could do to help” ( except call me to see what was wrong ), “I missed you so much” ( I know that you know how to use a phone ), “I just started a new job that’s why I couldn’t help you” ( BULLSHIT, I know that you didn’t start a new job ), “I brought over food and medicine for you” ( sure you did bring over food that you had gotten from public assistance 8 to 10 years earlier, and there was NO MEDICINE IN THAT BAG ).
So in short all the lip service really pissed me off because I might not have had enough life experience when I was younger to read through the bullshit and actually fall for that crap. I know that these people didn’t really give a rats ass about me and that’s why I didn’t talk to them for 5 years.
I will give my dad one chance to admit that he FUCKED UP, if he does I will drop it and we can work on our relationship, if he doesn’t it will be another 5 years before I talk to him again.
About my step mom, I finally let her have it and called her on all the bullshit that she was trying to feed to me.
EVERY excuse that she could muster up was shot down. There was nothing that she could say that would make anything make any sense of justify anything that she could say.
Like I said it was 5 years since I last spoke to them, that means that there has been 5 years to work on what to say in the event of failure…. she just walked into the lions den so to speak.
Well going on the fact that it was my sisters wedding I decided it was a better idea to get my ass out of there before I got really pissed off. As it was I was really upset that she would even make it a point to beat that dead horse.
Well that’s all the time I got for now, I am just glad that Amanda has found what seems to be a more normal family to get married into.
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